iPhone disabled saying connect to iTunes but have no way of getting it

If u have an iCloud account on the phone u might be able to perform a remote wipe of the phone deleting all the data… Not sure if this will work never tried it however u could try log onto iCloud.com alternatively:-

• Borrow a laptop and restore the phone in recovery mode
• Take it to the apple store and get them restore the phone
• Follow the guides on here to fix one of the laptops and restore the phone
• A restore will wipe the data and afterwards u will need to know the iCloud details it there is an account on there

Recovery mode, turn off the phone wait a few seconds to be off, hold the home button (round one at the bottom) plug the USB cable into the phone whilst holding the button. After a few seconds of the apple logo u should see a USB symbol appear on the screen and iTunes detect the phone in recovery mode.